August 14-16
Your gateway back to deeper intimacy, connection, and embodied presence.
Three days that change how connection feels in your body, your relationship, and your everyday life.
If intimacy feels like it belonged to a version of you who had more time, more ease, more fire…
And now it feels rushed. Scheduled. Negotiated.
You’re not broken.
You’re disconnected.
It's time to stop wondering where that part of you went.
Tantra is the gateway back to that version of you.
The version of you who felt:
more open
more confident
more present in your body
less guarded around touch, desire, and connection.
Tantra, in it's original form, was never about performance or technique alone.
It was an initiation into conscious love.
A discipline of awareness.
A sacred path that teaches how breath, attention, presence, and sexual energy shape connection itself.
This immersive retreat introduces both foundational and more advanced Tantric principles translated into a modern, trauma-informed framework grounded in neuroscience, somatic awareness, and relational psychology.
You will not simply learn techniques.
You will experience the deeper architecture of intimacy. You'll unlock how energy moves between bodies, how presence shapes arousal, how awareness transforms connection.
You’re not alone.
And you’re not broken.
For many people, intimacy doesn’t disappear.
It slowly becomes harder to access.
You start noticing things like:
Overthinking instead of feeling
Tension where there used to be ease
Desire that feels inconsistent or distant
Touch that feels expected instead of inviting
Connection that requires effort instead of happening naturally
This isn’t about chemistry.
It’s about nervous system safety.
And most of us were never taught how intimacy works in the body.
This Retreat Is About Changing How Intimacy Feels From The Inside Out
Whether you are single or partnered, intimacy begins with your ability to:
stay present instead of shutting down
receive without bracing
communicate desire without fear
experience pleasure without pressure
remain connected during vulnerability
When those skills return, relationships change naturally.
Attraction changes naturally.
Confidence changes naturally.
MEET YOUR FACITATORS.
Leah Piper is on a mission - to turn love and sex from a chore into an art form. As the founder of More Love Works and co-host of the Sex Reimagined Podcast, she has spent over 20 years guiding thousands to deeper intimacy.
Leah believes desire thrives through creativity, not routine. With an extensive background in tantric sex, psychology, and somatic therapies, she offers daring yet grounded wisdom. Leah's workshops strip away shame and invite vulnerability. Her coaching unravels knots couples thought were permanent. And her mentorship helps fellow entrepreneurs infuse passion into their purpose.
Whether speaking to crowds, working privately, or sharing her vision online, Leah inspires people to paint outside the lines of conventional relationships. She’s here to help you rediscover passion's true colors.
Elite Certified Tantra Educator (SSTY), Guy is the Co-Founder and Lead Facilitator of The Tantra Institute, and the originator of Tantra Speed Date®, one of the most unique and popular speed dating events in 50+ cities worldwide.
With numerous television appearances as well as features in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, Time Out New York, San Francisco Chronicle, The Sunday Times, and the New Yorker, The Tantra Institute has presented over 8,000 workshops serving more than 150,000 students.
Guy speaks, teaches, and coaches in New York and around the world. Guy most enjoys helping singles and couples have more intimacy, connection, and pleasure in their relationships and to be better lovers in all areas of life.
Wanda Santos-Haynes is a modern dating expert, relationship strategist, and intimacy coach helping high-achieving women and couples reclaim attraction, connection, and lasting love. A PhD in Clinical Sexology, she integrates neuroscience, attachment science, and erotic intelligence with the lens of consciousness, drawing from quantum physics, and embodied awareness, to bridge the scientific and the mystical into deeply transformative frameworks.
Having spent years in the trenches where medicine, intimacy, and culture collide, she is known for helping women dissolve unhealthy patterns and become irresistible in modern dating, and guiding couples out of Roommate Syndrome back into passion, desire, and emotional intimacy. A sought-after global speaker and media voice, Wanda’s work sits at the intersection of love, sex, power, consciousness, and human behavior, redefining what it means to create a life and relationship by design.
What people notice after this weekend
You don’t just leave changed.
You leave reconnected to yourself.
More present in your own body.
Anchored back into an identity you thought was lost.
You might notice…
You reach for someone’s hand without overthinking it.
You stay in a kiss longer instead of pulling away too quickly.
You stop wondering how you look and start feeling what’s actually happening.
You initiate intimacy without rehearsing it first.
You breathe instead of brace when someone touches you.
You say, “slower,” or “stay there,” without apology.
You notice desire rising quietly instead of trying to manufacture it.
You don’t rush toward orgasm. You stay in sensation.
You feel connected and turned on by life.
You make eye contact during vulnerability instead of shutting down.
You feel wanted without needing constant reassurance.
You feel confident without performing confidence.
Ease becomes your default.
Easier to soften. Easier to speak. Easier to receive. Easier to stay.
Intimacy stops feeling like something to manage.
It starts feeling like something to experience.
Because when your nervous system feels safe, connection feels natural.
What you will learn and experience
This retreat is both education and initiation.
You will be introduced to foundational and advanced Tantric principles translated into practices you can apply immediately.
You will learn:
• How to calm your nervous system when vulnerability feels overwhelming
• How to slow arousal without losing connection
• How to communicate desire and boundaries clearly
• How to repair disconnection before resentment forms
• How to stay embodied instead of retreating into thought
You will explore how sexual energy can be cultivated as a source of vitality, renewal, and conscious connection rather than depletion or performance.
Women will be introduced to expanded pathways of embodied pleasure and layered sensation.
Men will cultivate stamina, presence, and energetic steadiness learning ejaculatory choice and separating orgasm from depletion.
Couples will experience sexuality not as something to “get through,” but as a sacred exchange of devotion, attunement, and union.
Ancient Tantra understood something modern science is now confirming:
Breath changes state.
Attention changes sensation.
Regulation changes connection.
Here, you experience these truths directly.
Not as theory.
In real conversations.
In real touch.
In real relationships.
This Experience Meets You Exactly Where You Are
Some people arrive with a partner.
Some come on their own.
Some are rebuilding intimacy after loss or transition. Others are simply curious about what deeper connection could feel like.
There is no single starting point required.
Because intimacy is not defined by relationship status.
It lives in how safe you feel:
in your body,
in connection,
and in moments of vulnerability.
Whether you attend alone or together, the work begins in the same place:
Learning how to stay present when closeness matters.
Because when that changes, connection begins to change everywhere. In partnership, dating, communication, and self-trust.
This Work Matters.
This work restores capacities most people should have been taught, but were never taught.
Most high-functioning adults were taught how to achieve, but very few were taught what to do when:
Your chest tightens during vulnerability.
You feel yourself pulling away mid-argument.
You want closeness, but also feel exposed.
You crave touch, but tense when it begins.
You love deeply, but protect yourself automatically.
So intimacy becomes something you manage.
You manage your reactions. You manage expectations. You manage desire. You manage conflict.
And over time, managing replaces experiencing.
Inside this work you learn about the very things you've been searching for:
How to stay open when it would be easier to shut down.
How to regulate your body instead of overriding it.
How to let pleasure build instead of rushing toward an outcome.
How to repair disconnection before it hardens into distance.
This isn’t about learning something exotic.
It’s about reclaiming something essential.
The Result Goes Beyond Just Better Sex.
Sex may improve.
But what people often notice first is something more subtle:
They feel steadier, more comfortable in their own skin.
Less reactive.
More honest.
They trust themselves more during difficult conversations.
They don’t spiral as quickly.
They don’t withdraw as deeply.
They feel more magnetic because they’re no longer bracing.
Creativity returns.
Playfulness returns.
Energy returns.
Because intimacy is not a compartment of life.
It is a reflection of how safe you feel being seen.
And when that changes, everything changes.
Safety and Consent
This retreat is professionally guided and trauma-informed.
There is no nudity. There is no explicit sexual activity. There is no pressure to participate beyond your comfort.
Every practice is invitational.
Every exercise is structured.
You will always know:
• what is happening
• why it is happening
• and how to opt in or out
Consent is not assumed.
It is practiced.
You will never be rushed. Never singled out. Never exposed.
This is a space designed for emotional maturity, not shock value.
If you are nervous, that’s normal.
Many people are.
The structure of this retreat is built specifically to create safety before depth.
EVENT DETAILS
Location: Phoenix, Arizona (venue shared after registration)
Dates: August 14-16
Schedule: Friday evening through Sunday
Investment: $1,997 per person (retreat tuition only, hotel not included)
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this explicit?
It’s intimate, not explicit. This is about presence, communication, nervous system safety, and conscious touch.
Do I need to bring my partner?
No. Men, women, and couples are welcome, and this works with or without a partner.
Are accomodations included?
Hotel is not included. Travel and venue information will be emailed after registration due to privacy.
What to wear?
Comfortable, breathable, luxe casual. You’ll receive a prep email after registration.
Is this Trauma-Informed?
Yes. Consent, pacing, and nervous system regulation are foundational.
What if I'm nervous?
That’s normal. You’ll be guided gently, step-by-step.
What is the refund policy?
Due to the nature of the event, there are no refunds or exchanges for this event.
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MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO
Hi Beloved,
I'm Wanda.
Wanda Santos-Haynes is a trauma-informed relationship and intimacy mentor, and a PhD candidate in clinical sexology. She is known for being warm, direct, and deeply safe, the kind of guide who helps truth surface without pressure, shame, or collapse.
Her work bridges neuroscience and somatics with conscious, embodied intimacy practices, so clients leave with clear tools they can actually use in real life, not theory they forget by Monday.
In this retreat, Wanda’s focus is simple: help you create the kind of connection that makes repair faster, pleasure deeper, and intimacy feel safe again.
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